Dating & Courtship
Dating & Courtship - Are You
Shy With Opposite Sex?
Many of us are shy talking to the opposite sex. That takes us no where. We are scared of talking to any person of opposite sex. Something happens that stops us.
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Many of us are shy talking to the opposite sex. That takes us no where. We are scared of talking to any person of opposite sex. Something happens that stops us. Why do we get scared? We are not scared of talking to persons of our own sex. We are confident about ourselves. We have enough self-esteem, and we value ourselves as desirable. Then why? It is as if there is a switch in the mind that is switched off and says no when it comes to talking with persons of opposite sex.
What can be done about this? This problem has to do with our mind. Our mind tells us that we are not worthy. We may be rejected. We may be laughed at. Our mind warns us to defend ourselves from this and says no - you are not to approach anyone from the opposite sex. This is the mechanism of mind. Fight or flight. In this case, we resort to flight. But with this running away, we will never get a desirable partner. We will always remain alone and only wistfully watch other couples going around. So what should we do?
The very first step in such cases is to evaluate our self and compare ourselves with our friends. Are we as smart as they are? Are we as intelligent as they are? Are we as confident as they are? Are we as presentable as they are? Is our personality equally good? On most of these issues you may find that you are scoring more points than your friends. So one thing is established. You are a desirable person. If your friends are not shy, why are you? Gather the strength and approach persons of opposite sex with confidence. Don't worry about rejections. There can be many reasons for that. Approach smartly and you will surely get some one good to date. Good Luck.
Dating & Courtship - Be
Prepared For Getting Hurt
Many of us hate Dating & Courtship for all the trouble it involves. You never know what kind of person will your date be? You have some clues, but as you know more about him/her, your enthusiasm dips.
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Many of us hate Dating & Courtship for all the trouble it involves. You never know what kind of person will your date be? You have some clues, but as you know more about him/her, your enthusiasm dips. You had never asked for such a Dating & Courtship partner. There is nothing common between both of you and as you have more dates, you start thinking that you don't like this person. He/she may not be well groomed, or may be always coming late, talking few things that you don't understand and this all creates confusion in your mind.
How do I say no now and begin with another date. The same process has to be repeated. It all is so tiring. In the beginning, we are full of enthusiasm, but after few experiences, the enthusiasm wanes. Tiredness takes over us. Let me forget Dating & Courtship for a while and focus on my career/studies. This Dating & Courtship frustrates me totally. I would rather live alone and do better. I am tired and confused. You may not alone thinking all this. This situation is not very uncommon.
Can one stop Dating & Courtship altogether? Very few can do that. We need a partner to fulfill us. We need somebody to share the life. The loneliness can be worse. What is to be done? If you are encountering repeated failures, please give yourself a break for few days. Think about what all went wrong. Whether your choices were wrong or your expectations were not clear to you? Find out more about what you want and how can you attract someone who has those qualities. Forget the past failures. Clean the slate and restart.
Dating & Courtship -
Communication Is The Key
Sometimes when I read some questions posted by people on Dating & Courtship on forums, I find curious phenomena.
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Sometimes when I read some questions posted by people on Dating & Courtship on forums, I find curious phenomena. They all discuss their problems, their questions and everything about Dating & Courtship from others, but they don't ask their Dating & Courtship partner about what should be done. I wonder that it is like this - a child is crying and the mother posts on the net that my child is crying, what should I do? Why not ask the child? Similarly most of the issues of Dating & Courtship can be easily sorted out if we ask our partner. Let us find out more.
<strong>Are you confident about your Dating & Courtship partner?</strong>
Are you confident about your relationship and your partner? If you are sure about your choice of Dating & Courtship partner than most of the problems can be solved. Whatever may be the issue, ask him/her. Sometimes people get baffled with straight queries, but once they realize that you are very honest and open about your Dating & Courtship relationship, they will love it.
<strong>Why fear in Dating & Courtship?</strong>
People fear that a small wrong step can spoil the Dating & Courtship and they will have to begin searching again. This is not true. Fear kills your natural behavior. Fear will make you very guarded in your Dating & Courtship. Please stop fearing. Sky will not fall. Be natural and worry not. If you are good and your Dating & Courtship partner likes you, everything will end Ok.
<strong>Dating & Courtship and communication</strong> - Good communication is the key to success. Talk and listen as much as possible. Don’t hide feelings. Express them. Don’t hide fears, talk about them. Don’t hide desires; express them and you will get real satisfaction.