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Dating/Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliations & Independence: Women Over 40 Keeping Life In Balance

How do you find the balance between your own independent life and being in a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation? For some women this is about facing your worst fear that you will somehow lose yourself along the way. You can find out how to make sure that you don't give up on yourself whilst being in a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation. Five surefire ways of keeping you independent and happy whilst dating and finding a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation that is the right balance for you.

Women wanting a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation

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How do you find the balance between your own independent life and being in a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation? For some women this is about facing your worst fear that you will somehow lose yourself along the way. You can find out how to make sure that you don't give up on yourself whilst being in a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation. Five surefire ways of keeping you independent and happy whilst dating and finding a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation that is the right balance for you.

Women wanting a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation

At least 50% of the women over 40 whom I coach say at some point, rather defensively, "I want to do this coaching work with you but I don't really know whether I want to be in a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation". They are defensive because they think that everyone is expected to want to be with a partner. That is how the world appears, especially when we are single. Interestingly this is not the whole of the story. When I dig a little deeper what usually comes up is that for many women their worst fear is that they don't want to lose their independence. You have all worked hard to gain your independent place, especially those in their 40s, 50s & 60s. This of course is not only in Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliations but also in the world of work. For many women when they have got used to being single they are, on many levels, very happy with their lives. "I like being able to do what I want to do, when I want to do it, without having to ask anyone else's permission." said Emily a divorced women in her 50s. "I spent so many years being at the beck and call not only of my husband but also my children, they are grown up and it is now time for me". We can all sympathise with her.

Women want independence & Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliations

In fact, many women come to me to find out is whether they can find the kind of Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation that they want whilst still retaining their independence. Like everything in life it is about balance. Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation coaching does not mean that we don't look at the whole picture of your life. No Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation will work if you are not in balance with yourself. Now you may have got very used to 'doing your own thing' but there remains a niggling doubt. That little voice is saying "Why can't I have all this and have a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation too". Well the answer is that it is possible and I help women achieve that. It is especially important that you first become clear about what you want to retain about your independence and what you are looking for in a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation.

What must be in place for a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation to work?

What you must become clear about is what elements of your independent life you want to retain. Think about what are the 'must haves'. These may be things like time, certain kinds of space and a certain amount of time to spend with friends and family. You get the idea. Once you are completely clear what these are you start to have a blueprint for the life you want to have with someone else. Equally make a list of what it is that you want from the Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation. Remember these days there are all kinds of Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation arrangements - they are not all live-in married partnerships.

How to keep your Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation boundaries intact

What is most important is that you are conscious about your boundaries in a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation. Getting the balance right can be difficult, but if you have articulated for yourself your own 'must haves' you will be in a much stronger place. This might sound very contrived but think about it. When you go out to buy some new piece of kitchen equipment you will have spent some time thinking about what functions you want it to have. There are100s of different kinds of washing machine out there but if you have your 'must haves' clearly listed then it is going to make the process much easier. I know this sounds like finding a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation is like going shopping. Well it is in a way, and don't we all love shopping? Remember this is about you being The Chooser, that is one of the ways that you retain your independence and don't get swept away in the moment.

1. Make your 'must haves' list for your independent life
2. Make a list of your requirements in a partner
3. Remain The Chooser when dating and finding a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation
4. Stick to your lists - share them with a friend and get them to remind you if you start to slip
5. Learn to say 'no' early in the Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation if things don't fit - they won't change just because you hope they will!

 

Should I Spend Money On Women?

As the old adage goes, “Money makes the world go round.” You can buy almost everything if you have the money to pay for it. It makes every person wanting to have more to buy more. It creates the instant flow among businesspeople, consumers, negotiators, etc.

However, one thing is certainly included in this money consumption, and yet it nobody seems to be the least concerned about it. It is the fact that there are men who are willing to spend more money on women.

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As the old adage goes, “Money makes the world go round.” You can buy almost everything if you have the money to pay for it. It makes every person wanting to have more to buy more. It creates the instant flow among businesspeople, consumers, negotiators, etc.

However, one thing is certainly included in this money consumption, and yet it nobody seems to be the least concerned about it. It is the fact that there are men who are willing to spend more money on women.

However, it all goes to the point that there can be “all fun and no work” game here. The fact is that the more you have your wealth, the more you have problems. In addition, if you get to spend your money on the wrong places and the wrong thing, you get into trouble more than you have ever expected.

Money and Women

With money ready to buy what you want in a split of a second, you thought that you could almost have everything. Therefore, when the time comes that you have to woo a particular woman that you really like; you suddenly have the propensity to splurge any amount just to keep her on your toes.

Sounds like a good idea? Think again.

In contrast to what most rich people know, money and women should never be mixed. They certainly do not go hand in hand.

In most cases, when women see you with lots of money, they only see your façade and not you. For instance, if they see you driving your Mercedes, women see you as someone who can give them a ride on that fancy car, and not someone whom they can talk with.

Of course, not all women are like that. But the fact that people, and not just women, tend to be overpowered by the great influence of money, they have this predisposition to crave for more.

But do not get me wrong. There is actually nothing wrong on spending money on women, especially if you have lots of it. It is okay if you want to buy your wife with things that she does not have. It is okay to buy your mate with the things she longs to have. But never spend more money than what she needs to have.

You see the point? Spending money on women is not bad, but spending too much money is the point where the wildest female class can drop dead at your feet just to hoard money from you.

Consequently, the problem with most men is that they want this kind of attention. In fact, according to some surveys, 51% of men in the U.S. are actually spending more than $100 in a month just for dates. That is relatively splurging more of their finances than they might have been earning.

The rule of the game is that you should never be caught up in it. The problem with most men is that they are so hooked up on women that they forget to control their finances. What happens next is that they continuously splurge gifts and drinks for women, and before they know it, all they have left in the fridge are some apples to last them a day.

So what do you have to do with women? Keep your profile relatively low. Do not show off your finances. Do not let your women know how much you can give them. Try to live a simple life. The problem is that once you are caught up in the sport, you will find it doubly hard to get out.

Money gets treacherous when men forget the real value of money. They tend to overlook the fact that money cannot buy everything, especially love.

So if ever you want to win a woman’s heart, it is best not to spend more money just to win her over. There are instances wherein women are irritated and turned off by the mere gesture of wooing them with gifts and money.

If this happens, you will be turned down instead of winning her attention and love. Or there are some cases wherein women might just give you the love and attention that you need from here only because she is after your money.

You see, money can definitely bring you into more trouble the more you use it.

As mentioned, spending money on women is not bad as long as you get smart doing it. Hence, try to take things little by little. The bottom line here is to have control in everything that you do.

 

"You are killing US with YOUR jealousy"

To be accused and mistrusted by the one you love is a hardship and a definite pain that one cannot bear for a long time. They eventually either walk away or take a stand and call out to you, (the attacker) to please stop; to please listen to what you are saying and accusing them of.

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So far I have enlightened the world with my thoughts on jealousy and self-esteem. I want to clear up any misunderstandings that may have some male people thinking that I am targeting only women here. Jealousy and self-esteem issues also can imprison men as well as women. No one is excused from real human emotions. Emotions know no face, color, size or gender. There are two victims here, not just one.

I also feel that I have neglected to reveal how the other party involved in a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation that suffers from jealousy or self-esteem issues also suffers.

A Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation is a partnership. It is a commitment made between two people, in that we will stand by each other through thick and thin. Unfortunately, when it is a jealousy issue, both parties are effected. We tend to focus on the person that is trapped in the prison of worry, more than the other person that is caught in the line of fire, partly because we need to free that side first, then we can help heal the other.

Well I am now going to share that persons prison of hell as well.

To be accused and mistrusted by the one you love is a hardship and a definite pain that one cannot bear for a long time. They eventually either walk away or take a stand and call out to you, (the attacker) to please stop; to please listen to what you are saying and accusing them of.

Time after time they try so hard to reassure you that they do love you and that they are not interested nor lusting for anyone else. When they try to tell you that it is all in your mind, they risk getting attacked more for defense. It is no doubt a vicious circle. They become paranoid that no matter where they are, you are already convinced that they have betrayed you in some way. They wait for the shoe to drop. Some times it takes a few days, some times it drops immediately. Never the less they have to sit by and worry about when it will drop. They fear that this time they will not be able to say the right thing. They fear we will get even more depressed and irrational with what they say to us. They begin to feel, "damned if they do, and damned if they don`t". I personally hate that feeling. To think that I myself would put someone in that position makes me want to run away faster than Forrest Gump.

The neglect you put on that person through your jealous insecurities is as real to them as your feelings of being trapped in your prison of doubt. There are many scenarios as to why jealousy rises up inside people, but for the innocent ones that really do not ever do anything to trigger that fear inside you, they are the innocent victims. People that have come to the point of identifying their issues and have began to deal with them, please remember the other person that is there with you. They too need special attention, because they have shared your fears and your pain. In a much different way, never the less, they still ache. Jealousy can destroy so many good things in ones lives. It can destroy our mate, through you, it kills the one thing that you love deeply. The worst part about it is, that you allow it. You must stop. Would you take a gun and shoot your mate? NOT!! So then why are you allowing this emotion to torture what is so dear to you? I repeat, as long as your mate is not responsible for your fears or if they have made amends and are trying to make things better, then please understand their pain of being mistrusted. When they see you in pain and they are being told it is because of them, they crumble. Your mate loves you as much as you love them, and to feel they are responsible for your trapped feelings eats them up inside. To see you smile and feel totally loved makes them feel good about themselves in that they are responsible for that smile. That is a good feeling all the way around.

Also be careful not to fall into that habit of being unhappy through jealous feelings. Understand where they are coming from. Are you using them as a reason to get attention? Again, a wrong kind of attention. If you cannot get the right attention you feel you are lacking, then talk to your partner. Do not let jealous emotions take over and confuse what you really are trying to say. Any weakness in your mind is a direct route for negative feelings to travel through. Once they get there, they work very quickly at bringing you down. So be aware of what exactly you are feeling.

I hope that I have at least opened up some thoughts in your minds as to what else is going on in a Relationship, Liaison, Alliance, Affiliation that is plagued by jealousy. Both sides are equally being torchered and killed. We need to LIVE, LOVE & LAUGH more often with each other. Oh and lets not forget my favorite thing to do...HUGGGGGG!!!!

One thought from my heart to yours:

Say this outloud:

"I am always ready to risk.
I am always ready to learn.
I am always ready to test my strength, and so I put my worries aside and just live!"

Dorothy Lafrinere
Owner/Operator
Website- http://www.womensselfesteem.com
Weblog- http://www.justblogme.com/Dorothy
Forum- http://womenselfesteem.proboards29.com
email- dorothy@womensselfesteem.com

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